Stations of the Cross at Home

Going to Stations of the Cross at 7:30 PM with our four boys (right now they are 6 and under) is not going to happen this Lent, or for many more Lents for that matter. For now, my husband and I take turns week by week.  (It feels more like a vacation than a sacrifice, but pretend you didn’t read that!)

The boys don’t have to wait to pray the Stations until they are all well-behaved enough to attend this beautiful Lenten devotion, though. There are many great ideas on the web for how to pray the Stations at home with your kids, and I’ll share some of the ones I love, and give you a little tour of the Stations at our home.

Two resources that inspired me are Holy Heroes and Catholic Heritage Curricula.

From Holy Heroes, I bought their CD of the Stations of the Cross.  It is a dramatic presentation; it feels like the events of the Stations are happening in our living room. We hear the shouts of the crowds, the horses neighing, the soldiers yelling, the cross dragging on the road…

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It is relatively long (about 30 minutes), and the Holy Heroes website recommends giving little ones coloring books of the Stations while the others are praying. I haven’t yet tried this, and we haven’t used the CD to actually pray the Stations.  The boys just listened. And asked a thousand questions. (Love these moments!)

From Catholic Heritage Curricula, I bought 4 X 6 prints of the Stations of the Cross. They are from Italy, and are traditional prints that were familiar to me.  I attached them with mounting puddy to the woodwork above our windows and doors throughout the first floor of our home.

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The traditional prayers for the Stations are included on the Laudate app that I use daily, and that’s easy – and free – to use for now, but I’d rather give the boys booklets to hold.   I’ve seen some Stations of the Cross for children, but most of them have ugly pictures and/or awkward prayers. Two that look promising are sold by Holy Heroes and Catholic Heritage Curricula: Stations of the Cross Prayer Book for Children and Walking with Jesus to Calvary. Has anyone used these and would you recommend them?

Here are what the stations look like at our home:

We start the Stations in the living room.

We start the Stations in the living room.

Then move to the dining room for 3 more stations.

We move on to the dining room for 3 more stations. This is the 7th Station: Jesus Falls the Second Time

The 9th Station: Jesus Falls the Third Time - in the dining room

The 9th Station: Jesus Falls the Third Time – in the dining room

And by the way, Jesus probably would fall down in our dining room because there is always a Lego minefield in this room.

And by the way, Jesus probably would fall down in our dining room because there is always a Lego minefield in this room!

Stations 10 and 11 in the kitchen.

Stations 10 and 11 in the kitchen.

I made sure the 12th station was in a place that I will be able to see it often: this hangs in the kitchen on the way to the hallway.

I made sure the 12th station was in a place that I would be able to see it often: this hangs in the kitchen on the way to the hallway.

14th Station: Jesus is Laid in the Tomb - in the hallway

14th Station: Jesus is Laid in the Tomb – in the hallway, and we have completed the circle around the house.

 

I thought about putting all the Stations in a row in the hallway to resemble how it is at Church, but then decided that it would be nice to see pictures of the Passion of Christ all over the downstairs…they serve as a reminder in every room to think about Jesus’ sufferings and death.

May you have a blessed first full week of Lent!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just for Fun: Soul 40

Ok, so what follows completely proves I am a nerd. A Catholic geek. (And I’m proud of it, too!)

Have you ever heard of Whole 30? The 30-day diet that eliminates all dairy, grains, sugars, and even certain types of oils and vegetables?

I tried it for the month of October, and immediately afterwards, I thought, there has to be some sort of spiritual equivalent to this type of regimen. Instead of asking,  “What can I eliminate from my diet so that I can achieve optimal health?” I asked, “What things are part of my life, but are obstacles to a deeper union with Christ, or even to salvation itself?”

If I could be so strict with my diet for just 30 days, could I be just as strict with limiting obstacles to grace for the 40 days of Lent?

If you haven’t heard of Whole 30, this post might not make complete sense to you, but hopefully you can still get the gist of my crazy, nerdy thoughts.

I kept the format similar to the Whole 30 manual, so you can see what I thought could be equivalents to the foods eliminated in that diet.

So here I present: Soul 40 (in honor of Lent!)

 

Soul 40: Eliminating hindrances to the Spiritual Life and working towards the goal of Genuine Love of God and Neighbor

Eliminate:

Sugars: Self-Indulgent Foods (food for taste, not nutrition: junk food, fast food, soft drinks)

Dairy: Self-Indulgent Distractions (Entertainment, including TV, movies, social networking, magazines, blogs)

Grains: Bad habits of self-importance and pride. No swearing, hostility, seeking revenge, making threats, holding grudges, gossip, competitive behavior.

 

Include a balance of:

Protein: Prayer, Meditation, Spiritual Reading (Time spent with God) (Love of God)

Vegetables: Love of neighbor, service

Fruits: Good habits/Practicing virtue

Good Fats: Mass and the Sacraments

Herbs, Spices and Flavorings: Pursuing varied hobbies, talents, interests

Drinks: Practice living in the Presence of God

 

Could you imagine following this kind of plan for 40 days???? Actually, I think the religious at our chapel do this…every year!!! (Please pray for us, dear brothers and sisters!!)

 

(By the way, I will not be sharing what I’m actually going to give up for Lent, for the sake of keeping it between me and God, as Jesus asked us to do when He told His followers to fast in secret, and that His Father will see it in secret.)

 

I wish you a profitable, blessed Lent!

P.S. By “fun”, I mean it was fun to write this, not that it would actually be “fun” to do it!!

 

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